Homeschooling

As in every family and in every situation, we try to find out whatever fits.  Our decision to homeschool our children came from the ideas that in today’s current public education system, children do not have the individualized freedom to really find their true unique qualities.  Colin and I both felt that our own experiences within the school system led to difficulties later on that we have struggled with, and since the system doesn’t seem to have changed much, we wanted to offer something better for our own children, an environment that gave them the freedom to dive into whatever captures them without a time limit or a separation of subjects and age grouping dynamics.  I am not wanting to generalize, however, on the many schools out there and the many different experiences that can be created.   Negative experiences can happen to homeschooled children as well, and certainly, the ignorant seem to like to repeat the horror story of someone’s hidden away, repressed child to us when we tell them that we are a homeschooling family.  There are round holes and square pegs, and square holes and round pegs and everything else besides.  It is a new classroom that can teach to the individual needs of children, and for us, the classroom of our home works to meet all of the shapes of our gifts.

We have a unique program for homeschoolers on Pender Island, one that was created by a group of parents when my oldest (Taeven) was entering her kindergarten year.  We wanted to create an alternative for families to consider, and out of that came Spring Leaves Family Learning.  In collaboration with our local elementary school, we were able to acquire a teacher/facilitator, a space to use in the school one day a week for our own organized (and optional) activities, and the use of the gym, the library, and the kitchen.  We certainly have had some issues to work out along the way since we are working within the boundaries of the greater education system, but as we enter our fourth year we have expanded to the enrollment number of 21 kids, and we have created a day of focused learning for our now “older” kids, the ones who were in their primary grades when the program started.  As a group, we organize different activities to do together on our day at the school, or we take the group on field trips both on and off our island.  We have had community members come in and teach, we have had grandparents attend and help out, and we have had other teachers in the school peek in at our activities.  We are most grateful to our teacher/facilitator, Julie Johnston.  She has been working to create a resource of information and inspiration to update the current education curriculum to reflect the changing needs of our societies and our environment.  Her passion for the outdoors and natural, child led learning is refreshing and highly reflective of all our learning directives.  She sees engineering in a stack of beach stones.  She sees physics in the discovery of maple seed helicopters.  She celebrates the fact that we are all individual learners, and we need different environments and techniques to bring out our abilities.

It is difficult to say how our homeschooling time differs from our life time.  I can see my children learn on so many levels in a single activity, whether it is something that I organized for them or not.  Usually it is an activity that was created entirely by themselves that gives them the most deeply learned experiences.  My role is to give them a certain amount of awareness, or acknowledgement, of what they came to know.  Sometimes.  Sometimes it is better to just be around and be supportive.  I mean, I am building a house, and I take my opportunities to get busy… and at times when I am just starting to feel guilty at leaving them undirected, I suddenly realize that they have laid the kitchen floor with little white tiles, or they are building a miniature cob house out of my plaster, and I realize that by taking up my own work I am teaching them more than I imagined about the process of manifesting dreams.

So the journey continues.  Life continues.  Seasons sweep through us and offer new worlds to explore.  There are stumbling  blocks and slips and falls sometimes, but these are the places where we can learn more deeply about ourselves.  My children are precious to me, and I will take the road that honours them the most, while honouring myself along the way.

15 Comments (+add yours?)

  1. Michele Steele
    Sep 01, 2013 @ 22:19:20

    I am new to homeschooling on Mayne Island and want to locate other homeschoolers on Pender and Salt Spring to coordinate field trips and socializing for my daughter Malia who is 9. Are there still a group of homeschoolers that meet on Pender? We do not have many here and would like to have more opportunities for socialization for my daughter. Thanks I can be reached at 250-539-0555 or Raylia3@shaw.ca

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    • inspirationalvillage
      Sep 04, 2013 @ 00:57:57

      Hi Michele,
      Thanks for getting in touch about homeschooling! We are always excited about meeting other kids from other islands. We are involved with Spring Leaves here on Pender, and this year we have almost 20 kids ranging from ages 5-12. We meet twice a week, on tuesdays at the school and on wednesdays either at the school, at our own homes, or somewhere on the island or for field trips off the island. Each child that attends is registered with the program and so receives resource money and time with our facilitator looking at learning plans and reports for the school. You are welcome to come for a visit sometime and join our activities! It would be great to meet you and your daughter. Wendi.

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  2. Michele Steele
    Sep 17, 2013 @ 16:22:11

    Hi Wendy we are enrolled with Self Design, can we still participate with your group? Thanks I would love to try to make it to one of your gatherings. Michele

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  3. Michele Steele
    Sep 19, 2013 @ 16:42:17

    Could you please let me know about gatherings and field trips you might have, I would love for Malia to meet some of the kids from other islands!! A bit about me. We have an organic farm on Mayne and I also have 2 other daughters who are in GISS. First year homeschooling,so I am all new at this. Would love some insights!!! Thanks Michele Steele

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    • inspirationalvillage
      Sep 24, 2013 @ 04:21:15

      Hi Michele! We are just setting up ideas and plans for our time together as a group, and I think we could certainly let you know when we are planning field trips. We gather weekly on wednesdays for a variety of activities… If you like, I can pass your email address on to our facilitator and perhaps she can add you to any notices about our plans. I am sure we can make a connection!

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    • Leanne
      May 18, 2014 @ 02:47:15

      Hi Michele ~

      We’re on SaltSpring. My son’s with Self Design too, and our “LC” said that her search for nearby SelfDesigners led to you! She said your SD email would pop up were I to type your name into the “to” field… but it is a glitchy program, and of course didn’t work. So I find you here, instead. I was hoping we could maybe go to Pender together one of these days, and let our kids participate in the awesomeness they seem to have going-on, over there. Tuesdays are with kids only, Wednesdays with parents, it looks like.

      The message we got from our “LC” said that you are part-time on Salt Spring. Maybe if you’re ever here on a Wednesday morning, we could pop over to Pender together, and check it out. I am CAR-less, which is okay for some things (ie. we’re right in town on Salt Spring, so can walk to most events and shops), but a hassle, for trying to get off-island.

      Anyways, you can reach me more steadily at leanneandsylvan@gmail.com. Please do!

      Leanne
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  4. GreenHearted
    Sep 24, 2013 @ 04:43:22

    Hi Michele,
    Neat that you’re trying out home-based learning this year. And SelfDesign is a great program. We can certainly (try to remember to) keep you in the loop, especially for field trips to Saturna or off-island. The first big event we have coming up is a presentation in the Pender School gym on Wed Oct 16 at 1:30 of Aché Brasil. I’m sure you’d be more than welcome to come over for that, if the ferries work out for you. You can let me know at greenhearted at shaw dot ca if you decide to attend.
    Julie (resource teacher for the Spring Leaves Family Learning program)

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  5. Danielle Roegele
    Apr 23, 2014 @ 21:33:31

    Hi,

    I am interested in attending one of your Wednesday meetings. I am homeschooling my children. I have 3 kids and we live on Mayne. We are very curious about exploring possibilities. Would love to hear from you.

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    • inspirationalvillage
      May 10, 2014 @ 17:35:20

      Hi Danielle! Sorry about the delay in responding. It would be great to have you join in for some activities… we really value meeting folks from the other islands. We have lots of different types of activities, here is the SL blog that has a calendar on it… http://spring-leaves-family-learning.blogspot.ca/ We are meeting at the school next week and then going on an overnight field trip to the museum to see the Viking exhibit and to sleep at Goldstream for a bat program. After that, our activities are still flexible and being created as we go along. I hope it can work out to meet you! Wendi

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  6. Leanne
    May 06, 2014 @ 14:10:35

    Funny how there is more ‘visibility’ of home/unschooling groups on the “outer islands” than on Saltspring. My son and I are new to Saltspring, and thought home/unschooling would be BIG, here! We’ll keep lookin’, but it would sure be nice to get together with some kids, sometime soon!! “HAVE CHILD, WILL TRAVEL!” It looks like there are regular meet-ups on Pender, so we’re ready to hop on a ferry, whenever we need to.

    Thanks,
    Leanne

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    • inspirationalvillage
      May 10, 2014 @ 17:28:26

      Hi Leanne! We have a regular schedule of activities, including field trips and other events at the school. It is kind of a “hybrid” program as far as the school system is concerned…and we are always welcoming of visitors. There is a SL blog that has a calendar on it…http://spring-leaves-family-learning.blogspot.ca/ and you can always inquire about joining in for something. In the next two weeks we are camping out at the Nature House at Goldstream for a bat program and visiting the museum to see the Viking exhibit. Many of our weeks are flexible, but we always meet on tuesday(just kids) and wednesday(parents too). Hope to meet you! Wendi

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  7. Dayna
    Mar 03, 2015 @ 17:21:02

    Hi, I am moving to Saltspring at the end of April. I am currently homeschooling my youngest (6) I have an 11 yr old too, who didn’t want to make the change from public school. she may change her mind once we move. (?)
    I am looking to connect with other parents on or around Saltspring. I havent explored the other gulf islands much and am totally into it.
    I would love to meet some parents before the move. We are currently in Nanaimo, so not too far away and we travel to saltspring quite often.
    are we allowed to attend meetings/fieldtrips etc…? please email me at DaynaEarth@hotmail.com
    Thank you!

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  8. Timothy Price
    Sep 11, 2021 @ 15:27:22

    It looks like this post goes back a few years. We homeschooled our daughter in the US and in Spain during the four years we lived in Spain. It’s not legal to homeschool in Spain so we had to argue for special permission and the government finally granted it because I think they were tired of arguing with us weird Americans. We ended up getting our daughter through the Spanish baccalaureate in our home school program. She’s a polyglot and very well educated. It’s nice to see homeschooling on your site.

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    • inspirationalvillage
      Sep 11, 2021 @ 16:03:45

      We homeschooled until our kids were age 12 and 9, and now they are 19 and 16, and had various alternative experiences once they were in school. I think the earliest years were ultimately the most important, and I am so grateful we had this thriving program and group for support. It is not easy, as you told, to find the path that feels right when it is not supported (or even exists!) in the environment… we had to work with the school system to create these options for our kids. Both my kids are thriving as teens/young adults and are motivated learners with a grounded sense of themselves in the world.

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      • Timothy Price
        Sep 11, 2021 @ 16:12:38

        Home schooling is more common out here now in the SW USA, especially after the lockdowns. I can tell if kids are homeschooled. They are inquisitive, smart, know how to interact with adults, and are much more aware of their surroundings as they are rarely distracted with mobile devices.

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